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Mom has cancer and she is all I have

 
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soulight  

Comment: NYC What dedication she has...

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NYC What dedication she has for her mom. There need to be more families that care so much for each other in this country . In many families , close ties like this have been lost ,and it has contributed to many bad social conditions. God Bless this young woman and her mother . They will certainly be in my prayers. soulight
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NYC  

Update on Mom 83 Dying, brain cancer, Daughter all alone with nothing

Well this is an update on the 83 year old lady with brain cancer, she is bak in the hospital now with congestive heaart failure and being placed in hospice, I have watched her 38 year old daughter who has never been married or has not even worked in the past 10 years because she has dedicated her life to taking care of her Mom who only has social security, This girl will have nothing not even a place to live because where they live now is only for the elderly and she was able to stay there because she looked after her mom. I went to the hospital and it is amazing this girl will not leave her mothers side and yet she is faced with being homeless and where they live there is no transportation and she does not drive, I only hope that if I live that long that one of my children will be that faithful and unselfish. I do not know if anyone can help but if you can please do and most of all please pray that when the time comes God will give this girl the peace and help her to be strong, this will be a great lose for her.

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NYC  

Comment:her Mom is 83 and has brain cancer, and that is all she has is her mom PLEASE HELP

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This story is about a Lady I knew 20 years ago when I was an apartment Manager. I had not seen this Lady for about 19 years and last week i was thinking of her, but did not know where she was or lived and then a friens of mine who works in a hospital called and said do you know who i seen and it was that lady I had been thinking about, well I got her address and went to visit her only to find out that she has brain cancer, the sad part to this story is that she is 83 years old and has nothing but social security, but my real concern for her is that she has no one other then her 38 year old daughter who has really never worked or never has been married, she has basically dedicated her whole life to taking care of her Mom, n either one of them never drove and there is no mass transportation here. This elderly woman has a lot of faith and a great out look on life she says she is not a fraid to di and her spirits are good , she just does not want to leave her daughter without no security. She has written over 3000 poems in her life all different subjects but never could get them typed or try to publish them, I have now made a promise to visit them a least once a week there is not really much I can give to them as I have a family to take care of and things are hard, but if anyone has some ideas or resources please let me know after she passes her daughter will have nothing and no where to go, they are wonderful people and have so much love for other people and I just can not believe that God place this child in her life to take such care of her mother and then wind up so alone or that God placed her on my mind and then a friend seen her, So if there is anything I can do or any thing that anyone out there can do please let me know. If we can not give to one another how can we ever receive anything.
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